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31 Mar, 2021
Reconsidering the value of pain
Why pain? I hear people ask this question, in various versions. I often catch myself asking it too when I’m in pain, emotional or physical
30 Mar, 2021
I see nothing about you that I don’t love
~ What is freedom? What is valuable about power exchange journeys? Why do we seek it? ~
22 Feb, 2021
Feminization
...To uncover the sources of difficult attractions we must reject easy labels and venture inward where the erotic mind has its own ways...
06 Jan, 2021
From Whips to Tantra: Inside the World of Tantric BDSM
When I became a professional dominatrix more than a decade ago, it was because I wanted to explore humanness
24 Dec, 2020
What is Self-Worth
How we feel about ourselves—whether we respect ourselves—determines the quality of our life
21 Dec, 2020
Why UNDER|LINE
Aftercare, as the name suggests, is taking care of your journeying partner after play. This type of care is all about gently bringing...
16 Dec, 2020
How to Feel Your Feelings
“When you allow yourself to feel your pain fully, you free yourself from it” – Jack Morin
12 Dec, 2020
How do we love ourselves? Is self-love only about bubble baths, yoga, and kale? Or is there more to it?
The theme of self-love, self-care, and self-appreciation has been in the air around me for a while now.
11 Nov, 2020
Intimacy
We look for it through a deep emotional and physical connection with another, we look for the right kind atmosphere to catch a sense of...
04 Nov, 2020
Aftercare
Aftercare, as the name suggests, is taking care of your journeying partner after play. This type of care is all about gently bringing...
11 Apr, 2020
Session with no map
“I am only interested in the ideas that become obsessive and make me feel uneasy. The ideas that I’m afraid of.” – Marina Abramovic One...
11 Apr, 2020
My Shibari Healing by a Powerful Master
In all these years that I’ve been a Domme, I often found myself wondering: why is there such a great variety of FemDoms and yet such a...
11 Apr, 2020
Death has my life
~ It is what death does best: it breathes life into the living ~ In the story of my life, death has been my savior. This does sound odd -...
27 Jan, 2020
Even Soldiers Need Surrender
Reflecting It’s important for me to slow down and reflect back on my work. As I do so, it becomes apparent that, wow, every client I see...