Testimonials

This was a truly transformational experience! I decided to take this course because of a gut feeling, and it exceeded my expectations.

I’ve been considering exploring BDSM and had a lot of concerns about it. Although I had a genuine inclination to do it, I was assuming it could mean that I was a pervert or it could lead me to an addiction or get me into trouble. I felt ashamed and scared of being judged.
Also, as I found myself on a spiritual path, I was sure that something as BDSM and kink would take me in the opposite direction. However, the more I tried to get away from my fantasies, the more I caught myself drawn to it.

I found Rina’s Instagram by chance and was captivated by her approach - blending kink and tantric path. I decided to dive in and explore, and I found a lot. First of all, I received a clear BDSM guideline - history, definitions, activities, safety, structuring the scenes.

Second, I learned a lot about clear communication, boundaries, consent, and how to find a like-minded partner.

I became very inspired to see my “dirty” fantasy as a shadow longing to be seen, and I found myself en route to integrating my tender parts, inner mysteries longing to be seen.

I feel so grateful for this liberation.

Rina is a phenomenal intimacy and vulnerability coach with over a decades experience in the tantric arts and spiritual practices.

I’ve been working with her for 3 years in various capacities and she has helped me navigate and integrate so many things in my life.

Working with her has helped me build confidence in who I am and also connect deeper to my inner truth and strengths.

She has also helped me build a deeper understanding of my body and my relationship with it. Enabling me to feel safety in my body in ways I’m not sure I felt before working with her.

If you’ve been interesting in exploring yourself in different ways, I highly recommend this course or working with her in another capacity.
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I had the honor of joining Rina Trevis online Tantric BDSM course. I believe it is the most aesthetically stunning course I've ever taken. Filmed in multiple locations around the world. It was as if I was there, in the dungeon, in nature, in the gorgeous bedroom. It was remarkable. Rina shares intimate, in-depth information for a multitude of topics I couldn’t even imagine. She backs her work with psychological research, professionals in the fields, and experiential knowledge acquired by working as a Dominatrix. This is a powerful course that will tantalize your mind and senses, bringing forth desires and ideas that will expand your play and connection tool box with yourself and others. I highly recommend this course to anyone who wants to learn conscious BDSM.

The spiritual section was most powerful in the course.
I felt so fully integrated just after reading/watching the material. With the help of rituals such as consecration, as well as understanding of tantric archetypal forces, I was able to find myself more whole, more integrated, more confident, not afraid of my fire.

Thanks to these tools, I reached a profound intimacy with my partner, my sexuality has reached a new level - now I have zero shame about my desires, instead, I find them to be a blessing on my path.

I can accept myself in all weakness and full surrender.
And it makes me more strong.

I was able to dive deep into my inner world and recognize my fantasy as finger pointing at the moon - and the moon was a longing, a deep inner longing for wholeness.
Continuing with this course, I dove deeper into shadow work explorations and learned more about Yungian archetypes, as well as Erotic Mind by J Morin and Process Work by A. Mindell. These are powerful tools for understanding of my erotic wiring.

I fell in love with practical videos - beautiful scenery, beautiful models, great quality, great educational material!


Thank you so much Rina for sharing your gifts with me. These are so precious!

As a professional Shibari rigger, offering shibari journeys of all types, this course was the perfect choice for me to fill in the gaps between what I know well and specialize in, and what I did not know and needed to - in order to serve all my clients completely. I’ve been learning what I did not know, clarifying layers within those topics I did know and have learned so many new ways and nuances to make my offering so much more fluid and potent every single time. This course is bound to be a “required reading” for anyone in the field of BDSM as a professional, or at home practitioner. I can’t thank Rina more for her journey through all the stages of her life and how she has brought it all into this one, beautiful, potent offering for all of us to learn the games of decades of work in just weeks. Absolutely Fantastic!

Underline world's journey was an incredible course to understand and experience the realms of BDSM and Tantra. Rina shares her own experience on this path and clearly understands scene dynamics, languaging, and the importance of boundaries and communication.

This course helped me integrate my spiritual self with my kink lifestyle even more. As someone who aspires to do FemDom work along with energy work, this course was a beautiful initiation to dive deeper into the integration of both, along with understanding shadow work in this process. Thank you Rina for crafting this course, the videos, images and lectures are beautiful and easy to follow.


Alexandra Hribik 
The Shakti Temple

Our session and our dialogue has taken away any lingering doubts about reaching out to you in the first place. I knew I was seeking something that I could barely put to words, a mission to heal or at least clarify something in my past, and yield to something that would honor the Spirit.

The session itself was your work of creative art - between the pacing of different sensations, the flow of energy, between the new things encountered and the old buttons found and pushed like you always knew them. The way you drew the texture of the ropes so sensually across my skin before suddenly yanking them tight in such an authoritative way was a thrill, and drew me deeper into submission. And putting the ropes between my fingers made me strangely vulnerable and felt like a sign that there was no place on my body exempt from your control. I learned there is so much to tying someone, way beyond what knot or how tight!

I was squirming so hard to make something for your expectations, and I was not going to be able to do it. Then you said something like "you don't have to do anything to impress me" - which is the opposite of my kink. I just felt so accepted and safe, dropped everything at that moment, and you ended the session with my head in your lap. I was breathing you in, feeling safe as a baby.

After a day or so I became aware of an intense feeling of longing, desire, and sadness. The beginning of that feeling was in my tears at the end of the session, although I didn't know it then. It was a feeling of fulfillment and bliss followed by abandonment - as if I had known you for years, not hours.

As time wore on I understood all that as a way of dealing with the surprising, unexpected longing and dependency that was coming up. Eventually I was able to trace these feelings back to another event so many years ago when I was a very young man, a child almost. It was a meeting, an encounter, brief, evanescent and sacramental that has shaped me ever since for better or worse. And what I felt last week with you was an echo, an elaboration of the long ago thing. Like when astronomers pick up a pulse from light years away - a living message from the dead past.

At this point days later I feel a bit lighter, a bit freer, and more resolved to make the best of my time and my relationships going forward.

When I started up this vulnerability coaching journey with Rina, and after the first two sessions, I wrote her the following lines:

"Prior to having our first discussion, I had the intuition that I could embark on a deep and rich discovery with your support. I sensed your personality fitted what I was in need for, and the timing was ideal .

I have to say that I wasn't sure about what exactly I was looking for back then!

I can not be very specific yet, however the vulnerability and femininity approach is very promising. I am determined to explore how to open up to vulnerability, learn how to find and deal with fears, wherever they are.

I would like to better connect to my inner self, and as a result being in a position to give more love around me. I foresee the opportunity of a better relationship with, and contribution to, the world in general, and my lady in particular, by means of a greater benevolence".

To-date, the extents of my learnings are amazing and exhilarating, well beyond any expectation. What have I learned?

Well, I have moved from a strong self-esteem to better loving myself, and as a result, those around me, and life in general in all its aspects and forms.

Through meditative work, I have met with my inner child and brought him tenderness, compassion and love. I can now dare diving into myself, feeling safe, and facing my fears, hopes, the light and the dark aspects, valuing both.

I have learned to remember my dreams, and the symbolism attached to them. I have learned lessons about happiness, and put those in action.

I have been able to address dilemmas, and to understand what my deep beliefs and firm convictions.

I thought I was a mighty oak, and discovered I am a reed! And I feel more humble, and also stronger and more complete as a result.

It took me years to initiate such intimate journey, the timing was right and because we only meet who we can meet, the encounter with Rina was obvious since the first moment. I felt safe all the time, I appreciated every coaching moment, her empathy, her generosity, her skillful approach, her commitment.

Even though we worked online only, between Thailand and Europe, we were together in the journey. This is teamwork at its best.

A thousand thank you's and my deep gratefulness Rina, you're a splendid person and those crossing your path are so lucky!

After a few hours distance and a bit rethinking about what happened. I have to say this: it felt enormously well to have a trusted person in my back who cared for me and gave me reason to let go . And with also the ropes around I felt extremely comfortable and well cared. Your voice and your gentle touch felt so warm and protective, I had from beginning no reason to care about anything and could let loose immediately . Thx for this wonderful experience. Again something I had to figure out unexpected. Didn't think you plan to tie me up :) . I should had guessed but didn't think about it . 😂 After a few hours and reminding me what happened. I think in some way I'm searching the last years or probably everyone is searching for something like that . Someone who loves and cares without restrictions. Perfect and unbiased. Thank you so much. In this short time I learned so much I never expected that. And all because of you ! 🙏🏻😘 Thx again!

I didn't know what to expect when I hired Rina for the erotic shadow work session although I knew it was an unusual move. I was just trying to move past a sexually complex affair and wanted to untangle the emotions that came with it. Namely, I wanted to understand my complicated relationship with "control" and being controlled. Being completely vulnerable (but with a woman controlling the session I felt more safe in a way). It took me about a week to integrate the lessons that came from the session but one strange side effect as a result was that I became even more unapologetically dominant at my work, my full-time job. Having been raised in the Midwest (but living in NYC for 20 years now) I always struggled a bit with my desire of wanting to remain feminine and sexy but having to pull back or apologize for being competitive and aggressive at work.

Somehow, during my meditative state during Rina's session, I integrated the duality and came to fully understand that I did not have to relinquish my femininity and sexual appeal in order to be aggressive and dominant at work. I could own all of those traits fearlessly and that would make more even more productive and powerful. Obviously - if a woman can be feminine, sexy, aggressive and dominant - she is a force to be reckoned with. I remain soft and loving with my children, but it's important especially for my daughter that she sees a fully integrated mother. There's no need to hold anything back or leave any stone unturned within ourselves. Rina is a longtime veteran with a refreshing and original perspective of the human condition.

During a chance meeting on Phangan with the beautiful Rina, whom I had met before, I was surprised to learn that she started practicing Yoni massages. And that she happens to be in training right now, studying the craft and that I have an opportunity to get a session from her. Without expecting anything, I decided to try, because this topic had been circulating in the air around me for a while. I came to Inna's home, we drank tea, discussed my request and wishes, tuned in and the sacrament began.

Rina created a very peaceful and safe atmosphere in her cozy space: candles, incense, pleasant music all contributed to my relaxation. And when Rina touched me and started the session, it turned out that she was being coy about the fact that she was just a beginner. Her touch and all of her movements were very confident, precise, consistent, deep. Rina has been practicing Qigong for several years - this helps her to feel the massage receiver's reactions, which is important in this Spiritual-Body therapy.

Then the magic began. To say that I was shocked by how my body reacted is to say nothing at all! It seemed that my body had been waiting and preparing for a very long time (with my help) for someone to activate it. And that day, it finally happened. I had never had any particular sexual problems, but that I realized just how much of the unexplored and unknown was still stored in my body. The fountain of feelings-emotions, awareness, insights was so strong that, along with feeling and living all this in that moment, there was only one thought in my head: every woman should experience this because it lets you begin to feel your true Strength, your Power. You start to realize what the Feminine principle is.

I won't describe the details of the practice itself. I'll just say that women have a lot of emotions that accumulate in the uterus, both positive and negative, fears, resentments, etc. During the yoni massage session, these constrictions and blocks can begin to come out, so be prepared to emotional outbursts, do not be alarmed, but be prepared to work with this. Inna was very attentive all the time. I am very grateful to her for her sensitivity and for the atmosphere of trust that she created.

Overall, after the session I acquired a strong desire to get to know myself deeper in this sense. I highly recommend this to women who are in the process of knowing themselves, who want a qualitative understanding of their feminine essence. But also in general, it would be useful to all women, because we know so little about ourselves, about the structure of our bodies. The topic of feminine sexuality is still very much a taboo and the practice of Yoni massage is such a good step towards a happy Self.

Rina, thank you again!

Rina introduced me to a very spiritual side of BDSM where healing and consciousness are at the core of the experience and power exchange. She showed me how she aimed to surrender during her sessions, which for me was truly mind blowing as I always felt like I need to be in control and plan ahead, and that my submissive was the one that needed to surrender. But for her, surrendering was necessary to reach a higher state of mind and consciousness. So what does she surrender to? She surrenders to the Divine Feminine Power. Overall, depending on everyone's beliefs and spiritual connection, we can surrender to anything that is greater than us. This way we are not stuck in our ego minds and can truly dive into the depths of the soul.

Mistress Rina is a highly intuitive and skilled Dominatrix that will always know what the person in front of her needs and how to bring them to that place. I experienced sessions with her myself, we also Double Dommed and I got the privilege to switch with her too. Her genuine and sensitive self, yet very confident and experienced, allows her to be flexible in her role and guide you to where you need to go to expose your shadow self, face your fears and insecurities and own them. It's when we surrender that we can truly find freedom within.

I learned how to bring someone to nothingness, the place where you don't need to be someone or identify with your everyday identity, but simply be, and to empower them in that liberating state. Mindfulness and consciousness of the person in front of you, the energy that flows between all parties in a space, are what creates magical and unforgettable journeys inwards. Even if she is the dominant woman that takes the lead, she is also very caring and understanding of who is in front of her and what they are going through.The use of meditation techniques, of rituals and playing with various sensations from sound to smell to pain and pleasure, can't leave you unmarked. I would even say that she can truly transform you if you allow her. Surrender is a never-ending rabbit hole as she says, and I experienced it myself in her knowledgeable hands. If you trust her, you will go places you didn't know you even needed to go to.

Her intuition will allow her to feel the energy around her and adjust accordingly. She is a true Goddess and I am honored to have been trained by her. She understands the balance between shame and the inability to face one's desires, and the addiction that comes from fulfilling it and always wanting more. And she aims to teach how to find acceptance where we can be humbly fulfilled. I left feeling transformed and empowered as I got to face my own fears to reach a place of transcendence and healing. I am grateful to have been on this journey and can't speak high enough of what these two weeks with Mistress Rina brought me in terms of valuable insight.

Within this empty space, there was an automatic ablility to see how I've constructed unconscious stories about my relationship to pain (& suffering)

Weirdly enough, in the juxtapose / intersection of:
- body & spirit
- tenderness & harshness
- helplessness & resiliency

I was able to meet my intention, surrendering to the part of me that's been resisting my personal growth, that ended up revealing as my inner child (as an infant)

All she wanted this whole time was for me acknowledge her sense of helplessness so that she could finally rest in it (as you were lifting my up, I had no choice but to keep surrendering my weight over to the ropes & merge with her)

Then as you hung me by my leg, it reminded me of the tarot card: hanged man

Only to fall gracefully onto the floor where you were there to comfort me & infuse the experience with some beautiful energy work!

Our session and our dialogue has taken away any lingering doubts about reaching out to you in the first place. I knew I was seeking something that I could barely put to words, a mission to heal or at least clarify something in my past, and yield to something that would honor the Spirit.

The session itself was your work of creative art - between the pacing of different sensations, the flow of energy, between the new things encountered and the old buttons found and pushed like you always knew them. The way you drew the texture of the ropes so sensually across my skin before suddenly yanking them tight in such an authoritative way was a thrill, and drew me deeper into submission. And putting the ropes between my fingers made me strangely vulnerable and felt like a sign that there was no place on my body exempt from your control. I learned there is so much to tying someone, way beyond what knot or how tight!

I was squirming so hard to make something for your expectations, and I was not going to be able to do it. Then you said something like "you don't have to do anything to impress me" - which is the opposite of my kink. I just felt so accepted and safe, dropped everything at that moment, and you ended the session with my head in your lap. I was breathing you in, feeling safe as a baby.

After a day or so I became aware of an intense feeling of longing, desire, and sadness. The beginning of that feeling was in my tears at the end of the session, although I didn't know it then. It was a feeling of fulfillment and bliss followed by abandonment - as if I had known you for years, not hours.

As time wore on I understood all that as a way of dealing with the surprising, unexpected longing and dependency that was coming up. Eventually I was able to trace these feelings back to another event so many years ago when I was a very young man, a child almost. It was a meeting, an encounter, brief, evanescent and sacramental that has shaped me ever since for better or worse. And what I felt last week with you was an echo, an elaboration of the long ago thing. Like when astronomers pick up a pulse from light years away - a living message from the dead past.

At this point days later I feel a bit lighter, a bit freer, and more resolved to make the best of my time and my relationships going forward.

It was so very deep, beautiful and profound.

The first breakthrough happened very quickly. It happened when she started roping me up and I completely let go- I wasn't resisting the ropes whatsoever.
Then something was triggered as she was putting my hair up and incorporating the ropes into it.
By doing that it brought up a lot of sadness and grief about when I had my abortion and I lost all my hair.So there was a lot of sadness and grief and rage that was triggered.
As soon as I felt it come up I just allowed myself to scream and bellow and cry.
Then the next anchor that collapsed was the trigger around my neck being touched, as my ex boyfriend had choked me out at one point.
Her wrapping the rope around my neck 3-4 times was triggering but I let it be free as well.
I forgave myself as well as the deep resentment I had held in my body.
All I could do was crumble and reach out for those past generations and lives.
And it integrated.

Then Brandon came and looked at me and she lifted the blindfold.
He told me he loved me and wiped the tears from my eyes.
And during that time she just guided us- it was a wave of feelings.
I processed cycles of bursting emotions - whether it be through crying, hollering, screaming, relaxing by letting go of the physical tension in my body...
Just being 100% present made me realize even though I've done a lot of physical and emotional work, there was a lot of stuff in my body that hadn't collapsed yet and this has been an incredible tool to integrate all of that.

A lot of times as a child it felt toxic to be in my body.
There was so much fear, rage, and disgust.
Which is why I disassociated and used so much.

So this experience was very interesting.
I kept imagining and seeing my souls consciousness come back into my physical body
Opening up and being comfortable in the container.
Then when she started tying up my legs and suspending them,I got a flash of a past life experience of being dragged on the ground by a horse.
All of a sudden my unconscious mind drew the connection- "that's why I had cysts in my back!"
Many times I got them cut out and they grew back.
And I was able to fully let that go.

Then when she was hoisting me up in my lower back it was connected to my digestive issues.
And the pain that came up when she did that was unbelievable.
But for the first time instead of trying to harness or muscle or be strong or even trying to enjoy the pain like I used to in the past, I just decided to process it and let it go completely. Let go of suffering from the past that I was holding onto.
All of this came up in a matter of only 2 hours. And afterwards my body went into a massive healing phase. I had a fever for a whole night with every single nerve feeling as if it was on fire.
And I felt I had healed.

Rina introduced me to a very spiritual side of BDSM where healing and consciousness are at the core of the experience and power exchange. She showed me how she aimed to surrender during her sessions, which for me was truly mind blowing as I always felt like I need to be in control and plan ahead, and that my submissive was the one that needed to surrender. But for her, surrendering was necessary to reach a higher state of mind and consciousness. So what does she surrender to? She surrenders to the Divine Feminine Power. Overall, depending on everyone's beliefs and spiritual connection, we can surrender to anything that is greater than us. This way we are not stuck in our ego minds and can truly dive into the depths of the soul.
Mistress Rina is a highly intuitive and skilled Dominatrix that will always know what the person in front of her needs and how to bring them to that place. I experienced sessions with her myself, we also Double Dommed and I got the privilege to switch with her too. Her genuine and sensitive self, yet very confident and experienced, allows her to be flexible in her role and guide you to where you need to go to expose your shadow self, face your fears and insecurities and own them. It's when we surrender that we can truly find freedom within.
I learned how to bring someone to nothingness, the place where you don't need to be someone or identify with your everyday identity, but simply be, and to empower them in that liberating state. Mindfulness and consciousness of the person in front of you, the energy that flows between all parties in a space, are what creates magical and unforgettable journeys inwards. Even if she is the dominant woman that takes the lead, she is also very caring and understanding of who is in front of her and what they are going through.The use of meditation techniques, of rituals and playing with various sensations from sound to smell to pain and pleasure, can't leave you unmarked. She can truly transform you if you allow her. Surrender is a never-ending rabbit hole as she says, and I experienced it myself in her knowledgeable hands.

If you trust her, you will go places you didn't know you even needed to go to. Her intuition will allow her to feel the energy around her and adjust accordingly. She is a true Goddess and I am honored to have been trained by her. She understands the balance between shame and the inability to face one's desires, and the addiction that comes from fulfilling it and always wanting more. And she aims to teach how to find acceptance where we can be humbly fulfilled. I left feeling transformed and empowered as I got to face my own fears to reach a place of transcendence and healing. I am grateful to have been on this journey and can't speak high enough of what these two weeks with Mistress Rina brought me in terms of valuable insight.

If there is anyone to lean into as a mentor and a teacher and exploring a new territory, it would be Rina. When I was embarking on my new path and journey, it was Rina who was my first initial mentor and teacher. During that time when I felt that the path could've gone many different ways, it was her ability to navigate with such a level of calmness, compassion, presence, and deep insight, that laid down a foundation upon which I have built myself with pride. If you have the opportunity to learn under Rina, I can assure you that you are entering into a space of high integrity, deep understanding, true expertise, and a way to develop a sense of confidence in who you are moving forward.

My very unique journey with Rina brought me to deep self-realisations and gifted me an experience like no other. I have the utmost respect for how the space was held and felt safe and on my edges throughout. As Rina guided the scene the dark recesses of my soul were touched and I was able to express my inner feminine slut. Pleasure and pain became my every thought as I was kept fully present in my body.

The overwhelming desire to serve was exhilarating after so long being the one in the role of dominant. It was bliss to not have to think about the other and focus inwards on myself. With this surrender came for me shame..shame that I need this so much and it was difficult to comprehend that this shame turned me on! In a state of arousal and confusion and emotion I roared and cried and felt so much more than I can now express in words.

This journey helped initiate me into my feminine surrender, a journey all men need to understand the emotional heart. The road less travelled has now opened to me. Thank you Rina for giving permission for my inner desires to be met. I am in awe of your talents, instincts and confidence to take me beyond my known limits, to push my edges and introduce me to more of myself. A lifetime of thank you's to you for all the work you have done to become such a powerful embodiment of light and dark eros.

When I started up this vulnerability coaching journey with Rina, and after the first two sessions, I wrote her the following lines:

"Prior to having our first discussion, I had the intuition that I could embark on a deep and rich discovery with your support. I sensed your personality fitted what I was in need for, and the timing was ideal .

I have to say that I wasn't sure about what exactly I was looking for back then!

I can not be very specific yet, however the vulnerability and femininity approach is very promising. I am determined to explore how to open up to vulnerability, learn how to find and deal with fears, wherever they are.

I would like to better connect to my inner self, and as a result being in a position to give more love around me. I foresee the opportunity of a better relationship with, and contribution to, the world in general, and my lady in particular, by means of a greater benevolence".

To-date, the extents of my learnings are amazing and exhilarating, well beyond any expectation. What have I learned?

Well, I have moved from a strong self-esteem to better loving myself, and as a result, those around me, and life in general in all its aspects and forms.

Through meditative work, I have met with my inner child and brought him tenderness, compassion and love. I can now dare diving into myself, feeling safe, and facing my fears, hopes, the light and the dark aspects, valuing both.

I have learned to remember my dreams, and the symbolism attached to them. I have learned lessons about happiness, and put those in action.

I have been able to address dilemmas, and to understand what my deep beliefs and firm convictions.

I thought I was a mighty oak, and discovered I am a reed! And I feel more humble, and also stronger and more complete as a result.

It took me years to initiate such intimate journey, the timing was right and because we only meet who we can meet, the encounter with Rina was obvious since the first moment. I felt safe all the time, I appreciated every coaching moment, her empathy, her generosity, her skillful approach, her commitment.

Even though we worked online only, between Thailand and Europe, we were together in the journey. This is teamwork at its best.

A thousand thank you's and my deep gratefulness Rina, you're a splendid person and those crossing your path are so lucky!

After a few hours distance and a bit rethinking about what happened. I have to say this: it felt enormously well to have a trusted person in my back who cared for me and gave me reason to let go . And with also the ropes around I felt extremely comfortable and well cared. Your voice and your gentle touch felt so warm and protective, I had from beginning no reason to care about anything and could let loose immediately . Thx for this wonderful experience. Again something I had to figure out unexpected. Didn't think you plan to tie me up :) . I should had guessed but didn't think about it . 😂 After a few hours and reminding me what happened. I think in some way I'm searching the last years or probably everyone is searching for something like that . Someone who loves and cares without restrictions. Perfect and unbiased. Thank you so much. In this short time I learned so much I never expected that. And all because of you ! 🙏🏻😘 Thx again!

I didn't know what to expect when I hired Rina for the erotic shadow work session although I knew it was an unusual move. I was just trying to move past a sexually complex affair and wanted to untangle the emotions that came with it. Namely, I wanted to understand my complicated relationship with "control" and being controlled. Being completely vulnerable (but with a woman controlling the session I felt more safe in a way). It took me about a week to integrate the lessons that came from the session but one strange side effect as a result was that I became even more unapologetically dominant at my work, my full-time job. Having been raised in the Midwest (but living in NYC for 20 years now) I always struggled a bit with my desire of wanting to remain feminine and sexy but having to pull back or apologize for being competitive and aggressive at work.

Somehow, during my meditative state during Rina's session, I integrated the duality and came to fully understand that I did not have to relinquish my femininity and sexual appeal in order to be aggressive and dominant at work. I could own all of those traits fearlessly and that would make more even more productive and powerful. Obviously - if a woman can be feminine, sexy, aggressive and dominant - she is a force to be reckoned with. I remain soft and loving with my children, but it's important especially for my daughter that she sees a fully integrated mother. There's no need to hold anything back or leave any stone unturned within ourselves. Rina is a longtime veteran with a refreshing and original perspective of the human condition.

During a chance meeting on Phangan with the beautiful Rina, whom I had met before, I was surprised to learn that she started practicing Yoni massages. And that she happens to be in training right now, studying the craft and that I have an opportunity to get a session from her. Without expecting anything, I decided to try, because this topic had been circulating in the air around me for a while. I came to Inna's home, we drank tea, discussed my request and wishes, tuned in and the sacrament began.

Rina created a very peaceful and safe atmosphere in her cozy space: candles, incense, pleasant music all contributed to my relaxation. And when Rina touched me and started the session, it turned out that she was being coy about the fact that she was just a beginner. Her touch and all of her movements were very confident, precise, consistent, deep. Rina has been practicing Qigong for several years - this helps her to feel the massage receiver's reactions, which is important in this Spiritual-Body therapy.

Then the magic began. To say that I was shocked by how my body reacted is to say nothing at all! It seemed that my body had been waiting and preparing for a very long time (with my help) for someone to activate it. And that day, it finally happened. I had never had any particular sexual problems, but that I realized just how much of the unexplored and unknown was still stored in my body. The fountain of feelings-emotions, awareness, insights was so strong that, along with feeling and living all this in that moment, there was only one thought in my head: every woman should experience this because it lets you begin to feel your true Strength, your Power. You start to realize what the Feminine principle is.

I won't describe the details of the practice itself. I'll just say that women have a lot of emotions that accumulate in the uterus, both positive and negative, fears, resentments, etc. During the yoni massage session, these constrictions and blocks can begin to come out, so be prepared to emotional outbursts, do not be alarmed, but be prepared to work with this. Inna was very attentive all the time. I am very grateful to her for her sensitivity and for the atmosphere of trust that she created.

Overall, after the session I acquired a strong desire to get to know myself deeper in this sense. I highly recommend this to women who are in the process of knowing themselves, who want a qualitative understanding of their feminine essence. But also in general, it would be useful to all women, because we know so little about ourselves, about the structure of our bodies. The topic of feminine sexuality is still very much a taboo and the practice of Yoni massage is such a good step towards a happy Self.

Rina, thank you again!

I experienced pleasure within myself that I never have with another…or that I have been able to achieve in my own self-exploration. Inna opened me up to a world within myself. There is a particular stroke that she did that blew my mind. She helped me find new points of pleasure within myself that I was not aware of.
One of my favorite, most impactful things that Inna said was that it's not about her. She does not take what comes up for me personally. If I needed to process and let go of anger, she would be there to support me in it. This allowed me to feel safe to express myself in whatever way I wanted to or could.

The fact that there were hours to spend and not feeling the hurry to "get to" the next place sexually with a partner, my body was truly able to relax and receive kindness and compassion and pleasure in ways that it hasn't before.

Every woman would benefit from this. Especially every young woman. Imagine a chance to learn as a young adult what does feel good, pure, orgasmic, incredible in her body, and in a safe space and in a safe way…groundbreaking. Life altering.

I cried at the end of our session because I was able to reunite with my pleasure again. I thought it was gone and I would not experience it at all. This deeply moved me and changed my life. I am so deeply grateful to Inna!

Rina introduced me to a very spiritual side of BDSM where healing and consciousness are at the core of the experience and power exchange. She showed me how she aimed to surrender during her sessions, which for me was truly mind blowing as I always felt like I need to be in control and plan ahead, and that my submissive was the one that needed to surrender. But for her, surrendering was necessary to reach a higher state of mind and consciousness. So what does she surrender to? She surrenders to the Divine Feminine Power. Overall, depending on everyone's beliefs and spiritual connection, we can surrender to anything that is greater than us. This way we are not stuck in our ego minds and can truly dive into the depths of the soul.

Mistress Rina is a highly intuitive and skilled Dominatrix that will always know what the person in front of her needs and how to bring them to that place. I experienced sessions with her myself, we also Double Dommed and I got the privilege to switch with her too. Her genuine and sensitive self, yet very confident and experienced, allows her to be flexible in her role and guide you to where you need to go to expose your shadow self, face your fears and insecurities and own them. It's when we surrender that we can truly find freedom within.

I learned how to bring someone to nothingness, the place where you don't need to be someone or identify with your everyday identity, but simply be, and to empower them in that liberating state. Mindfulness and consciousness of the person in front of you, the energy that flows between all parties in a space, are what creates magical and unforgettable journeys inwards. Even if she is the dominant woman that takes the lead, she is also very caring and understanding of who is in front of her and what they are going through.The use of meditation techniques, of rituals and playing with various sensations from sound to smell to pain and pleasure, can't leave you unmarked. I would even say that she can truly transform you if you allow her. Surrender is a never-ending rabbit hole as she says, and I experienced it myself in her knowledgeable hands. If you trust her, you will go places you didn't know you even needed to go to.

Her intuition will allow her to feel the energy around her and adjust accordingly. She is a true Goddess and I am honored to have been trained by her. She understands the balance between shame and the inability to face one's desires, and the addiction that comes from fulfilling it and always wanting more. And she aims to teach how to find acceptance where we can be humbly fulfilled. I left feeling transformed and empowered as I got to face my own fears to reach a place of transcendence and healing. I am grateful to have been on this journey and can't speak high enough of what these two weeks with Mistress Rina brought me in terms of valuable insight.

I'm amazed when I meet her as she's actually more beautiful in person and has incredible presence, charm, and charisma mixed with a very deep understanding of kink! She's also incredibly intelligent and very friendly too! During our conversation we spent a lot of time discussing our experiences and fantasies as she was crafting a scene what would make our session the best and most fulfilling for both of us. I absolutely loved being in her company, and the longer I was in her presence, the more I understood how lucky I was to be meeting someone this remarkable and captivating!

The session itself was a sensory overload of unique and exotic sounds, smells, sensuality and bondage. She had an exceptionally special set of music playing the entire time along with burning candles and incense too. I'd always thought an experience with Rina would be incredible, and she certainly proved me correct – she was literally everything I expected and much more.

Tied up, helpless and submitting to her will, we never even discussed a safe word as I was certain I was in good hands with her expertise – I could only surrender my resistance as she masterfully took total control of every aspect of our several hour session indulging in her guidance, taking me on an alluring journey to incredible places of erotic consciousness, dishing out both pain and pleasure and before she was done, she'd penetrated my mind and soul in ways that have never been done before!

One of the most incredible experiences of my lifetime, and one of the most amazing people I've ever met! Rina Trevi is STUNNING and I'm certainly looking forward to many more experiences with her in the future!

Sessions like this are very important to women, because they give us the opportunity to get to know ourselves in a space that feels safe. It's unfortunate to admit but most of us have never taken the time to find out how we're built on the inside. It seems as though every boy from earliest childhood has a personal relationship with his penis, which happens to be easy to see and to touch, whereas a girl's vagina tends to remain verboten. During the session, Inna very carefully leads you through the initial phase, of exploring this sacred zone, by gently physically pointing out and verbalizing different spots in this area. Inna's voice has the uncanny effect of inviting you into this journey and of continuously supporting you through it. Each word seems to come at just the right time to help you notice your physical sensations, and to help you recognize the emotions or thoughts that they bring up. Her voice makes it easier to get through whatever physical discomfort might come up, to let go of "stories" and to remain in the here and now. Rina helped me put into words and images things that my eyes couldn't see. I was able to sense where the cervical canal is and how it feels, to notice areas that are tense, and to understand what areas provide pleasurable sensations. I was also able to notice that different areas as well as different types of stimulation result in very different types of pleasure.

Another important aspect of my session with Inna was its incredible healing effect. For several years, I had been medically diagnosed with a cervical polyp and recommended surgery. Eventually it was concluded that there was apparently no polyp after all but that, due to the narrow structure of my cervical canal, blood clots tend to accumulate there, which do not completely clear out during menstruation. It turned out that this was most likely triggered by stress that caused my pelvic area to tense up. And, in fact, I had been experience a great deal of stress during the past several years of my life. Prior to that, I had had no history of medical issues related to my reproductive organs.

During the rather intensive massage administered by Rina this blood clot was able to be released from the cervical canal and to come out, thanks to the relaxation of the area. It has been several cycles now that it has not returned. I believe that regular massages like this can prevent such problems from recurring and can help one avoid having to turn to surgical intervention. For several years gynecologists had been warning me of the possibility of developing any number of complications from this condition of constant spasm. They said that the presence of the blood clot made my cervix a favorable environment for pernicious microbes and potential oncological developments. Thanks to Rina, I was able to become more aware of the source of the problem and to find a way to release the pressure that had built up in this area of my body. I am very grateful that, thanks to Inna's massage, I was able to prevent my problem from worsening by clearly seeing the path to its resolution. I want to express my enormous gratitude to Inna and my wish for all of you ladies to have this amazing experience.

There's a word that gets thrown around a lot in the media, consensual. I feel like that word is often overlooked in any power dynamic especially when it comes to relationships. And unless someone has gone through a non-consensual event, they'll truly never understand why it's such an important word. Even still I hope and work towards nobody experiencing that pain.
When I was a kid I used to fantasize about being tied up, abused and used for another's pleasure. It is honestly a memory I had when I still lived in the first house I lived in. Yet that was the same house I was assaulted in many times. I was embarrassed and ashamed of myself for those thoughts as well as what happened. A catholic boy, assaulted by his own family. Taught that any sex outside of marriage, even a thought was taboo.

I never thought the first session we had together would lead to that night. The session where I gave up control, no safe word, just allowed someone else to use my body. I gave control to a figure of dominance, to an attractive woman, smart, demanding, yet caring.

When the blindfold came over my eyes, hands bound above my head, feet tied apart on a wobbly bench, I was entirely exposed. I created a life that I could control every aspect of, finances, events, the people in my life, the persona I people saw in me. Nobody in my life knows who I truly am, but that's part of that childhood pain turning into control. Yet in that moment I could hide nothing. The master of disguises couldn't hide a twitch of his body, the clenching of a muscle, nor the satisfaction I got from what was happening around and to me.
I try to be an adrenaline junkie but bungee jumping, 180 miles an hour on motorcycles, racing, sports; I knew if I trained, studied, planned and worked hard enough I could control every outcome. And I always did even down to the inch the bungee rope stretched.

I've met with mistresses before but never without a script or several words to outline how things felt to me. I always had the ability to control the level of pain, or the next step in the night. That night with you exposed a fear in me I didn't have since being a little 7 year old boy laid back on that bed, not understanding or knowing what was going to happen next. Giving up control in a consensual manner reminded me that pleasure can and does come from these things as long as we understand our selves. And fear can intensify that; not just make experiences worse. Two consensual people can make fireworks.

I play that night over in my head, it was only 90 minutes but it felt like a lifetime. How 90 minutes changed my outlook on life I may never understand though it was like a rebirth. Which I find slightly ironic after the end of our session being in a body bag. No longer am I ashamed of what I enjoy. I understand myself in a way I never would have, or could have, before.

I laid on the bed that night, with you by my side, and didn't know whether to hug you, run through the streets with 'we are the champions' blaring (though still nude I'm sure that wouldn't have gone well), or cry with you holding me. I understand it probably wasn't the same for you but that was a thin moment for me. Thin moments happen rarely in one's life but they can shape the people we are. That night somehow, someway, pushed me over the edge of a pain driven life, to a pleasurable one.

I let an event that happened to me as a child ruin so many experiences in my life. I thought I had my life in control yet those childhood events controlled who I was, not the other way around.

We all have kinks of our own. I'm glad I got to play out some of mine with you. I want to continue learning about what makes me happy and keeps me trying for more. Though now I don't feel the need to create the scenario, I just want to feel it. Our lives are short, I just want to experience what life is before it's my time.

Since we met several weeks ago many people have said I seem different. I don't know if that's true but I'm honestly just enjoying what's around me instead of trying to control it. I'm also doing a lot more work with organizations to prevent childhood abuse. Being open about the events that happened to me, and gaining the confidence in myself, though maybe by unorthodox practices, has changed my perspective on life. I'm a very lucky man who has an amazing wife, a life people dream of, and has somehow gotten lucky enough to have you be a part of my life. Even if only for a few moments here and there I appreciate you and what you do.

Thanks again Rina. Our experience together is something I will never forget and look forward to more the next time I'm in town.

I guess everyone needs therapy in their own way… but I assume you don't take my health insurance.

Within this empty space, there was an automatic ablility to see how I've constructed unconscious stories about my relationship to pain (& suffering)

Weirdly enough, in the juxtapose / intersection of:
- body & spirit
- tenderness & harshness
- helplessness & resiliency

I was able to meet my intention, surrendering to the part of me that's been resisting my personal growth, that ended up revealing as my inner child (as an infant)

All she wanted this whole time was for me acknowledge her sense of helplessness so that she could finally rest in it (as you were lifting my up, I had no choice but to keep surrendering my weight over to the ropes & merge with her)

Then as you hung me by my leg, it reminded me of the tarot card: hanged man

Only to fall gracefully onto the floor where you were there to comfort me & infuse the experience with some beautiful energy work!

Our session and our dialogue has taken away any lingering doubts about reaching out to you in the first place. I knew I was seeking something that I could barely put to words, a mission to heal or at least clarify something in my past, and yield to something that would honor the Spirit.

The session itself was your work of creative art - between the pacing of different sensations, the flow of energy, between the new things encountered and the old buttons found and pushed like you always knew them. The way you drew the texture of the ropes so sensually across my skin before suddenly yanking them tight in such an authoritative way was a thrill, and drew me deeper into submission. And putting the ropes between my fingers made me strangely vulnerable and felt like a sign that there was no place on my body exempt from your control. I learned there is so much to tying someone, way beyond what knot or how tight!

I was squirming so hard to make something for your expectations, and I was not going to be able to do it. Then you said something like "you don't have to do anything to impress me" - which is the opposite of my kink. I just felt so accepted and safe, dropped everything at that moment, and you ended the session with my head in your lap. I was breathing you in, feeling safe as a baby.

After a day or so I became aware of an intense feeling of longing, desire, and sadness. The beginning of that feeling was in my tears at the end of the session, although I didn't know it then. It was a feeling of fulfillment and bliss followed by abandonment - as if I had known you for years, not hours.

As time wore on I understood all that as a way of dealing with the surprising, unexpected longing and dependency that was coming up. Eventually I was able to trace these feelings back to another event so many years ago when I was a very young man, a child almost. It was a meeting, an encounter, brief, evanescent and sacramental that has shaped me ever since for better or worse. And what I felt last week with you was an echo, an elaboration of the long ago thing. Like when astronomers pick up a pulse from light years away - a living message from the dead past.

At this point days later I feel a bit lighter, a bit freer, and more resolved to make the best of my time and my relationships going forward.

Having the opportunity to have a dom who specializes in tantra and shibari stay in my house was an incredible experience.

First, I was able to model her nature.
She's so beautiful in the way that she approached life. It was so simple and yet so powerful.
Everything she did had intention.
There was rest built into it and I noticed her being so present in everything that she does.
Whether that be making a delicious smoothie or going on a wonderful walk and soaking up the sun.
She did everything with so much presence and to its fullest capacity- just letting it unfold and take her on a journey of "Where is the right place to go in the right moment?".

When I first met her I wanted to be suspended and do all these things. Then after 4 days of hosting her I decided to just take my 1:1 shibari session in the moment and go with the flow.
And that experience was NOTHING I thought it would be.

It was so very deep, beautiful and profound.

The first breakthrough happened very quickly. It happened when she started roping me up and I completely let go- I wasn't resisting the ropes whatsoever.
Then something was triggered as she was putting my hair up and incorporating the ropes into it.
By doing that it brought up a lot of sadness and grief about when I had my abortion and I lost all my hair.
So there was a lot of sadness and grief and rage that was triggered.
As soon as I felt it come up I just allowed myself to scream and bellow and cry.
Then the next anchor that collapsed was the trigger around my neck being touched, as my ex boyfriend had choked me out at one point.
Her wrapping the rope around my neck 3-4 times was triggering but I let it be free as well.
I forgave myself as well as the deep resentment I had held in my body.
All I could do was crumble and reach out for those past generations and lives.
And it integrated.

Then Brandon came and looked at me and she lifted the blindfold.
He told me he loved me and wiped the tears from my eyes.
And during that time she just guided us- it was a wave of feelings.
I processed cycles of bursting emotions - whether it be through crying, hollering, screaming, relaxing by letting go of the physical tension in my body...
Just being 100% present made me realize even though I've done a lot of physical and emotional work, there was a lot of stuff in my body that hadn't collapsed yet and this has been an incredible tool to integrate all of that.

A lot of times as a child it felt toxic to be in my body.
There was so much fear, rage, and disgust.
Which is why I disassociated and used so much.

So this experience was very interesting.
I kept imagining and seeing my souls consciousness come back into my physical body
Opening up and being comfortable in the container.
Then when she started tying up my legs and suspending them,I got a flash of a past life experience of being dragged on the ground by a horse.
All of a sudden my unconscious mind drew the connection- "that's why I had cysts in my back!"
Many times I got them cut out and they grew back.
And I was able to fully let that go.

Then when she was hoisting me up in my lower back it was connected to my digestive issues.
And the pain that came up when she did that was unbelievable.
But for the first time instead of trying to harness or muscle or be strong or even trying to enjoy the pain like I used to in the past, I just decided to process it and let it go completely. Let go of suffering from the past that I was holding onto.
All of this came up in a matter of only 2 hours. And afterwards my body went into a massive healing phase. I had a fever for a whole night with every single nerve feeling as if it was on fire.
And I felt I had healed.

Then having @mystikole be there was so effing cool.
She was there guiding me, beating the drum, helping me through linguistically.
I felt free.
Free from the physical container.

Such a sweet testimonial from my trainee Rina introduced me to a very spiritual side of BDSM where healing and consciousness are at the core of the experience and power exchange. She showed me how she aimed to surrender during her sessions, which for me was truly mind blowing as I always felt like I need to be in control and plan ahead, and that my submissive was the one that needed to surrender. But for her, surrendering was necessary to reach a higher state of mind and consciousness. So what does she surrender to? She surrenders to the Divine Feminine Power. Overall, depending on everyone's beliefs and spiritual connection, we can surrender to anything that is greater than us. This way we are not stuck in our ego minds and can truly dive into the depths of the soul.
Mistress Rina is a highly intuitive and skilled Dominatrix that will always know what the person in front of her needs and how to bring them to that place. I experienced sessions with her myself, we also Double Dommed and I got the privilege to switch with her too. Her genuine and sensitive self, yet very confident and experienced, allows her to be flexible in her role and guide you to where you need to go to expose your shadow self, face your fears and insecurities and own them. It's when we surrender that we can truly find freedom within.
I learned how to bring someone to nothingness, the place where you don't need to be someone or identify with your everyday identity, but simply be, and to empower them in that liberating state. Mindfulness and consciousness of the person in front of you, the energy that flows between all parties in a space, are what creates magical and unforgettable journeys inwards. Even if she is the dominant woman that takes the lead, she is also very caring and understanding of who is in front of her and what they are going through.The use of meditation techniques, of rituals and playing with various sensations from sound to smell to pain and pleasure, can't leave you unmarked. She can truly transform you if you allow her. Surrender is a never-ending rabbit hole as she says, and I experienced it myself in her knowledgeable hands.

If you trust her, you will go places you didn't know you even needed to go to. Her intuition will allow her to feel the energy around her and adjust accordingly. She is a true Goddess and I am honored to have been trained by her. She understands the balance between shame and the inability to face one's desires, and the addiction that comes from fulfilling it and always wanting more. And she aims to teach how to find acceptance where we can be humbly fulfilled. I left feeling transformed and empowered as I got to face my own fears to reach a place of transcendence and healing. I am grateful to have been on this journey and can't speak high enough of what these two weeks with Mistress Rina brought me in terms of valuable insight.

If there is anyone to lean into as a mentor and a teacher and exploring a new territory, it would be Rina. When I was embarking on my new path and journey, it was Rina who was my first initial mentor and teacher. During that time when I felt that the path could've gone many different ways, it was her ability to navigate with such a level of calmness, compassion, presence, and deep insight, that laid down a foundation upon which I have built myself with pride. If you have the opportunity to learn under Rina, I can assure you that you are entering into a space of high integrity, deep understanding, true expertise, and a way to develop a sense of confidence in who you are moving forward.

My very unique journey with Rina brought me to deep self-realisations and gifted me an experience like no other. I have the utmost respect for how the space was held and felt safe and on my edges throughout. As Rina guided the scene the dark recesses of my soul were touched and I was able to express my inner feminine slut. Pleasure and pain became my every thought as I was kept fully present in my body.

The overwhelming desire to serve was exhilarating after so long being the one in the role of dominant. It was bliss to not have to think about the other and focus inwards on myself. With this surrender came for me shame..shame that I need this so much and it was difficult to comprehend that this shame turned me on! In a state of arousal and confusion and emotion I roared and cried and felt so much more than I can now express in words.

This journey helped initiate me into my feminine surrender, a journey all men need to understand the emotional heart. The road less travelled has now opened to me. Thank you Rina for giving permission for my inner desires to be met. I am in awe of your talents, instincts and confidence to take me beyond my known limits, to push my edges and introduce me to more of myself. A lifetime of thank you's to you for all the work you have done to become such a powerful embodiment of light and dark eros.

When I started up this vulnerability coaching journey with Rina, and after the first two sessions, I wrote her the following lines:

"Prior to having our first discussion, I had the intuition that I could embark on a deep and rich discovery with your support. I sensed your personality fitted what I was in need for, and the timing was ideal .

I have to say that I wasn't sure about what exactly I was looking for back then!

I can not be very specific yet, however the vulnerability and femininity approach is very promising. I am determined to explore how to open up to vulnerability, learn how to find and deal with fears, wherever they are.

I would like to better connect to my inner self, and as a result being in a position to give more love around me. I foresee the opportunity of a better relationship with, and contribution to, the world in general, and my lady in particular, by means of a greater benevolence".

To-date, the extents of my learnings are amazing and exhilarating, well beyond any expectation. What have I learned?

Well, I have moved from a strong self-esteem to better loving myself, and as a result, those around me, and life in general in all its aspects and forms.

Through meditative work, I have met with my inner child and brought him tenderness, compassion and love. I can now dare diving into myself, feeling safe, and facing my fears, hopes, the light and the dark aspects, valuing both.

I have learned to remember my dreams, and the symbolism attached to them. I have learned lessons about happiness, and put those in action.

I have been able to address dilemmas, and to understand what my deep beliefs and firm convictions.

I thought I was a mighty oak, and discovered I am a reed! And I feel more humble, and also stronger and more complete as a result.

It took me years to initiate such intimate journey, the timing was right and because we only meet who we can meet, the encounter with Rina was obvious since the first moment. I felt safe all the time, I appreciated every coaching moment, her empathy, her generosity, her skillful approach, her commitment.

Even though we worked online only, between Thailand and Europe, we were together in the journey. This is teamwork at its best.

A thousand thank you's and my deep gratefulness Rina, you're a splendid person and those crossing your path are so lucky!

After a few hours distance and a bit rethinking about what happened. I have to say this: it felt enormously well to have a trusted person in my back who cared for me and gave me reason to let go . And with also the ropes around I felt extremely comfortable and well cared. Your voice and your gentle touch felt so warm and protective, I had from beginning no reason to care about anything and could let loose immediately . Thx for this wonderful experience. Again something I had to figure out unexpected. Didn't think you plan to tie me up :) . I should had guessed but didn't think about it . 😂 After a few hours and reminding me what happened. I think in some way I'm searching the last years or probably everyone is searching for something like that . Someone who loves and cares without restrictions. Perfect and unbiased. Thank you so much. In this short time I learned so much I never expected that. And all because of you ! 🙏🏻😘 Thx again!

I didn't know what to expect when I hired Rina for the erotic shadow work session although I knew it was an unusual move. I was just trying to move past a sexually complex affair and wanted to untangle the emotions that came with it. Namely, I wanted to understand my complicated relationship with "control" and being controlled. Being completely vulnerable (but with a woman controlling the session I felt more safe in a way). It took me about a week to integrate the lessons that came from the session but one strange side effect as a result was that I became even more unapologetically dominant at my work, my full-time job. Having been raised in the Midwest (but living in NYC for 20 years now) I always struggled a bit with my desire of wanting to remain feminine and sexy but having to pull back or apologize for being competitive and aggressive at work.

Somehow, during my meditative state during Rina's session, I integrated the duality and came to fully understand that I did not have to relinquish my femininity and sexual appeal in order to be aggressive and dominant at work. I could own all of those traits fearlessly and that would make more even more productive and powerful. Obviously - if a woman can be feminine, sexy, aggressive and dominant - she is a force to be reckoned with. I remain soft and loving with my children, but it's important especially for my daughter that she sees a fully integrated mother. There's no need to hold anything back or leave any stone unturned within ourselves. Rina is a longtime veteran with a refreshing and original perspective of the human condition.

During a chance meeting on Phangan with the beautiful Rina, whom I had met before, I was surprised to learn that she started practicing Yoni massages. And that she happens to be in training right now, studying the craft and that I have an opportunity to get a session from her. Without expecting anything, I decided to try, because this topic had been circulating in the air around me for a while. I came to Inna's home, we drank tea, discussed my request and wishes, tuned in and the sacrament began.

Rina created a very peaceful and safe atmosphere in her cozy space: candles, incense, pleasant music all contributed to my relaxation. And when Rina touched me and started the session, it turned out that she was being coy about the fact that she was just a beginner. Her touch and all of her movements were very confident, precise, consistent, deep. Rina has been practicing Qigong for several years - this helps her to feel the massage receiver's reactions, which is important in this Spiritual-Body therapy.

Then the magic began. To say that I was shocked by how my body reacted is to say nothing at all! It seemed that my body had been waiting and preparing for a very long time (with my help) for someone to activate it. And that day, it finally happened. I had never had any particular sexual problems, but that I realized just how much of the unexplored and unknown was still stored in my body. The fountain of feelings-emotions, awareness, insights was so strong that, along with feeling and living all this in that moment, there was only one thought in my head: every woman should experience this because it lets you begin to feel your true Strength, your Power. You start to realize what the Feminine principle is.

I won't describe the details of the practice itself. I'll just say that women have a lot of emotions that accumulate in the uterus, both positive and negative, fears, resentments, etc. During the yoni massage session, these constrictions and blocks can begin to come out, so be prepared to emotional outbursts, do not be alarmed, but be prepared to work with this. Inna was very attentive all the time. I am very grateful to her for her sensitivity and for the atmosphere of trust that she created.

Overall, after the session I acquired a strong desire to get to know myself deeper in this sense. I highly recommend this to women who are in the process of knowing themselves, who want a qualitative understanding of their feminine essence. But also in general, it would be useful to all women, because we know so little about ourselves, about the structure of our bodies. The topic of feminine sexuality is still very much a taboo and the practice of Yoni massage is such a good step towards a happy Self.

Rina, thank you again!

I experienced pleasure within myself that I never have with another…or that I have been able to achieve in my own self-exploration. Inna opened me up to a world within myself. There is a particular stroke that she did that blew my mind. She helped me find new points of pleasure within myself that I was not aware of.
One of my favorite, most impactful things that Inna said was that it's not about her. She does not take what comes up for me personally. If I needed to process and let go of anger, she would be there to support me in it. This allowed me to feel safe to express myself in whatever way I wanted to or could.

The fact that there were hours to spend and not feeling the hurry to "get to" the next place sexually with a partner, my body was truly able to relax and receive kindness and compassion and pleasure in ways that it hasn't before.

Every woman would benefit from this. Especially every young woman. Imagine a chance to learn as a young adult what does feel good, pure, orgasmic, incredible in her body, and in a safe space and in a safe way…groundbreaking. Life altering.

I cried at the end of our session because I was able to reunite with my pleasure again. I thought it was gone and I would not experience it at all. This deeply moved me and changed my life. I am so deeply grateful to Inna!

Rina introduced me to a very spiritual side of BDSM where healing and consciousness are at the core of the experience and power exchange. She showed me how she aimed to surrender during her sessions, which for me was truly mind blowing as I always felt like I need to be in control and plan ahead, and that my submissive was the one that needed to surrender. But for her, surrendering was necessary to reach a higher state of mind and consciousness. So what does she surrender to? She surrenders to the Divine Feminine Power. Overall, depending on everyone's beliefs and spiritual connection, we can surrender to anything that is greater than us. This way we are not stuck in our ego minds and can truly dive into the depths of the soul.

Mistress Rina is a highly intuitive and skilled Dominatrix that will always know what the person in front of her needs and how to bring them to that place. I experienced sessions with her myself, we also Double Dommed and I got the privilege to switch with her too. Her genuine and sensitive self, yet very confident and experienced, allows her to be flexible in her role and guide you to where you need to go to expose your shadow self, face your fears and insecurities and own them. It's when we surrender that we can truly find freedom within.

I learned how to bring someone to nothingness, the place where you don't need to be someone or identify with your everyday identity, but simply be, and to empower them in that liberating state. Mindfulness and consciousness of the person in front of you, the energy that flows between all parties in a space, are what creates magical and unforgettable journeys inwards. Even if she is the dominant woman that takes the lead, she is also very caring and understanding of who is in front of her and what they are going through.The use of meditation techniques, of rituals and playing with various sensations from sound to smell to pain and pleasure, can't leave you unmarked. I would even say that she can truly transform you if you allow her. Surrender is a never-ending rabbit hole as she says, and I experienced it myself in her knowledgeable hands. If you trust her, you will go places you didn't know you even needed to go to.

Her intuition will allow her to feel the energy around her and adjust accordingly. She is a true Goddess and I am honored to have been trained by her. She understands the balance between shame and the inability to face one's desires, and the addiction that comes from fulfilling it and always wanting more. And she aims to teach how to find acceptance where we can be humbly fulfilled. I left feeling transformed and empowered as I got to face my own fears to reach a place of transcendence and healing. I am grateful to have been on this journey and can't speak high enough of what these two weeks with Mistress Rina brought me in terms of valuable insight.

I'm amazed when I meet her as she's actually more beautiful in person and has incredible presence, charm, and charisma mixed with a very deep understanding of kink! She's also incredibly intelligent and very friendly too! During our conversation we spent a lot of time discussing our experiences and fantasies as she was crafting a scene what would make our session the best and most fulfilling for both of us. I absolutely loved being in her company, and the longer I was in her presence, the more I understood how lucky I was to be meeting someone this remarkable and captivating!

The session itself was a sensory overload of unique and exotic sounds, smells, sensuality and bondage. She had an exceptionally special set of music playing the entire time along with burning candles and incense too. I'd always thought an experience with Rina would be incredible, and she certainly proved me correct – she was literally everything I expected and much more.

Tied up, helpless and submitting to her will, we never even discussed a safe word as I was certain I was in good hands with her expertise – I could only surrender my resistance as she masterfully took total control of every aspect of our several hour session indulging in her guidance, taking me on an alluring journey to incredible places of erotic consciousness, dishing out both pain and pleasure and before she was done, she'd penetrated my mind and soul in ways that have never been done before!

One of the most incredible experiences of my lifetime, and one of the most amazing people I've ever met! Rina Trevi is STUNNING and I'm certainly looking forward to many more experiences with her in the future!

Sessions like this are very important to women, because they give us the opportunity to get to know ourselves in a space that feels safe. It's unfortunate to admit but most of us have never taken the time to find out how we're built on the inside. It seems as though every boy from earliest childhood has a personal relationship with his penis, which happens to be easy to see and to touch, whereas a girl's vagina tends to remain verboten. During the session, Inna very carefully leads you through the initial phase, of exploring this sacred zone, by gently physically pointing out and verbalizing different spots in this area. Inna's voice has the uncanny effect of inviting you into this journey and of continuously supporting you through it. Each word seems to come at just the right time to help you notice your physical sensations, and to help you recognize the emotions or thoughts that they bring up. Her voice makes it easier to get through whatever physical discomfort might come up, to let go of "stories" and to remain in the here and now. Rina helped me put into words and images things that my eyes couldn't see. I was able to sense where the cervical canal is and how it feels, to notice areas that are tense, and to understand what areas provide pleasurable sensations. I was also able to notice that different areas as well as different types of stimulation result in very different types of pleasure.

Another important aspect of my session with Inna was its incredible healing effect. For several years, I had been medically diagnosed with a cervical polyp and recommended surgery. Eventually it was concluded that there was apparently no polyp after all but that, due to the narrow structure of my cervical canal, blood clots tend to accumulate there, which do not completely clear out during menstruation. It turned out that this was most likely triggered by stress that caused my pelvic area to tense up. And, in fact, I had been experience a great deal of stress during the past several years of my life. Prior to that, I had had no history of medical issues related to my reproductive organs.

During the rather intensive massage administered by Rina this blood clot was able to be released from the cervical canal and to come out, thanks to the relaxation of the area. It has been several cycles now that it has not returned. I believe that regular massages like this can prevent such problems from recurring and can help one avoid having to turn to surgical intervention. For several years gynecologists had been warning me of the possibility of developing any number of complications from this condition of constant spasm. They said that the presence of the blood clot made my cervix a favorable environment for pernicious microbes and potential oncological developments. Thanks to Rina, I was able to become more aware of the source of the problem and to find a way to release the pressure that had built up in this area of my body. I am very grateful that, thanks to Inna's massage, I was able to prevent my problem from worsening by clearly seeing the path to its resolution. I want to express my enormous gratitude to Inna and my wish for all of you ladies to have this amazing experience.

There's a word that gets thrown around a lot in the media, consensual. I feel like that word is often overlooked in any power dynamic especially when it comes to relationships. And unless someone has gone through a non-consensual event, they'll truly never understand why it's such an important word. Even still I hope and work towards nobody experiencing that pain.
When I was a kid I used to fantasize about being tied up, abused and used for another's pleasure. It is honestly a memory I had when I still lived in the first house I lived in. Yet that was the same house I was assaulted in many times. I was embarrassed and ashamed of myself for those thoughts as well as what happened. A catholic boy, assaulted by his own family. Taught that any sex outside of marriage, even a thought was taboo.

I never thought the first session we had together would lead to that night. The session where I gave up control, no safe word, just allowed someone else to use my body. I gave control to a figure of dominance, to an attractive woman, smart, demanding, yet caring.

When the blindfold came over my eyes, hands bound above my head, feet tied apart on a wobbly bench, I was entirely exposed. I created a life that I could control every aspect of, finances, events, the people in my life, the persona I people saw in me. Nobody in my life knows who I truly am, but that's part of that childhood pain turning into control. Yet in that moment I could hide nothing. The master of disguises couldn't hide a twitch of his body, the clenching of a muscle, nor the satisfaction I got from what was happening around and to me.
I try to be an adrenaline junkie but bungee jumping, 180 miles an hour on motorcycles, racing, sports; I knew if I trained, studied, planned and worked hard enough I could control every outcome. And I always did even down to the inch the bungee rope stretched.

I've met with mistresses before but never without a script or several words to outline how things felt to me. I always had the ability to control the level of pain, or the next step in the night. That night with you exposed a fear in me I didn't have since being a little 7 year old boy laid back on that bed, not understanding or knowing what was going to happen next. Giving up control in a consensual manner reminded me that pleasure can and does come from these things as long as we understand our selves. And fear can intensify that; not just make experiences worse. Two consensual people can make fireworks.

I play that night over in my head, it was only 90 minutes but it felt like a lifetime. How 90 minutes changed my outlook on life I may never understand though it was like a rebirth. Which I find slightly ironic after the end of our session being in a body bag. No longer am I ashamed of what I enjoy. I understand myself in a way I never would have, or could have, before.

I laid on the bed that night, with you by my side, and didn't know whether to hug you, run through the streets with 'we are the champions' blaring (though still nude I'm sure that wouldn't have gone well), or cry with you holding me. I understand it probably wasn't the same for you but that was a thin moment for me. Thin moments happen rarely in one's life but they can shape the people we are. That night somehow, someway, pushed me over the edge of a pain driven life, to a pleasurable one.

I let an event that happened to me as a child ruin so many experiences in my life. I thought I had my life in control yet those childhood events controlled who I was, not the other way around.

We all have kinks of our own. I'm glad I got to play out some of mine with you. I want to continue learning about what makes me happy and keeps me trying for more. Though now I don't feel the need to create the scenario, I just want to feel it. Our lives are short, I just want to experience what life is before it's my time.

Since we met several weeks ago many people have said I seem different. I don't know if that's true but I'm honestly just enjoying what's around me instead of trying to control it. I'm also doing a lot more work with organizations to prevent childhood abuse. Being open about the events that happened to me, and gaining the confidence in myself, though maybe by unorthodox practices, has changed my perspective on life. I'm a very lucky man who has an amazing wife, a life people dream of, and has somehow gotten lucky enough to have you be a part of my life. Even if only for a few moments here and there I appreciate you and what you do.

Thanks again Rina. Our experience together is something I will never forget and look forward to more the next time I'm in town.

I guess everyone needs therapy in their own way… but I assume you don't take my health insurance.